“i always text her first should i stop” is a blog post aimed at analyzing the emotional and communication factors that shape texting relationships. It explores the characteristics, motivations, and experiences of texters and text recipients, while examining the influence of insecurity, anxiety, frustration, and emotional dependence. By uncovering the impact of texting frequency, initiator, content, and response time, the post reveals how these factors can create power imbalances, mismatched expectations, and unrequited feelings.